We've closed on and moved into this house one month ago today. It still feels like we're squatting, mainly because we still don't have our gear from the movers. We've gone from "You're looking at 2 weeks" to "you're looking at 30 business days, not calendar days" which puts us getting our stuff somewhere at the end of June. We are sleeping on a mat on the floor, Leah's been on the floor since the cats demolished the air mattress she was on (we got her a new air mattress this weekend), and making do with borrowed items and yard sale things, as we don't want to go buying all the stuff that we know is on the truck. We've bought a couple of cabinets and shelves, as well as a comfy chair for Leah, and some glasses, and we have met some really, really lovely people along the way.
This is the pallet on the floor where we've been sleeping for a month... |
One of the lovely cabinets we bought from a local yard sale site--I look forward to NOT using it for clothing someday |
Between that, the furniture companies telling us we'd be waiting till summer to get delivery on our bedroom set and living room furniture, and the contractors coming in to look at the work we want to do and telling us "Well, I might get to it in November, or it might be spring" and "this isn't as easy a job as you think" and "I work kinda slow and would do this around my other jobs" we've just grown increasingly frustrated. Last Thursday it all came to a head, and I told Greg it was time to start doing what we could do and learn to do some things that we weren't sure we could do.
We started watching YouTube videos on how to build a partition wall and have gotten rather excited about it. We discussed putting in a barn door to close off what's going to become our master bedroom from the bathroom/closet area, and Greg suggested that instead, we install a pocket door, which will allow us to use a little less lumber, and still get good support. So we've done our homework on that, but we decided we should start with getting up the carpet and fixing the walls in that bedroom area.
Greg got excited about actually 'doing' instead of just talking, and before I got home from work on Thursday, he had the carpet ripped out! We were kinda bummed out to discover the hardwoods don't continue into that area, but we are ok with putting down new flooring eventually. The flooring that IS there is nicely finished, even if it's sub flooring of some stripe, and since we aren't going to be living in there for a while, it's no big deal at all.
After I got home from work and admired his labor, Leah and I got in the car and headed out on the town to buy what we needed to finish completing the porch area. The porch was getting the most use from us when we first arrived, and we had had our lawn chairs out there before any other furniture arrived and spent a lot of time hanging out there with the cats. We wanted one room to be complete and look great, and we decided the porch would be the easiest--particularly in light of the fact that the furniture set we had ordered on line had arrived and Greg and I put it together last week (that we were still speaking afterwards is quite something! :D ). Leah and I went and got a couple of fake plants--an unfortunate necessity as the cats eat any real plants we bring in the house--as well as curtains, and the cushions I had ordered from Amazon had arrived and we were in business. We moved out the small table I had gotten at one of the auctions, and in our Saturday yard sale rounds picked up a little bird house that brought all the colors together, and we were in business. It's very welcoming and inviting, and the cats love being out there and having furniture. Which I guess is what's important. Haha
Then we started on the big work... We knew the living room and entryway were coated in wallpaper, which makes me 3 for 3 in homes owned with wallpaper. In our NY house, we had ripped off wallpaper only to have the wall come off with it, resulting in an expensive and lengthy repair process. I had Friday off as a bonus day for Juneteenth, and we wound up using part of that day to rip off the wallpaper. The wallpaper was painted over and I think it had loosened some of it, because it was not in good shape and the paint color was "not to our taste", shall we say. We came to discover that in the half of the room that's going to be our bedroom, there are 5 layers of wallpaper on the walls, some of which I don't think we're going to get down. The other half of the room is actually done in paneling, which had been papered over. It is quite a challenge to get the paper off the paneling, but we're actually OK with the paneling and plan to just paint it a nicer shade of white than it already is. But getting the paper off is going to be an issue. Still, we got Leah involved and she actually seemed to find it fun being a paper archeologist and using water to get rid of the adhesive. It was fun that we did it altogether as a family.
Also this weekend, we purchased a new island and range set up for the kitchen, which our friends Keith and Mary helped us transport back to The Cottage. I got it off a garage sale site for under $400, and it is a darned sight better than what we presently have in the kitchen, which Keith laughingly suggested we donate to the local museum! Honestly, they might be interested. haha
We've done other small things like removing and beating back the bushes in the front of the house, putting up a new shower curtain, putting in nice air fresheners, installing an intercom so we aren't constantly screaming up and down the stairs, and purchasing a small amount of artwork for our bedrooms. Leah is still debating what color to paint her room, but once she settles on a color, we are going to get that done for her so she has a cozy place of her own. (Would be helpful if it was before the movers arrived, but you can't rush perfection!)
All in all, putting in some sweat equity has given us a better sense of ownership and less of a sense of simply squatting in a building. The cats had a field day hiding their mice and bottle caps in the paper and tunneling through, and we felt good having a nice place to hang out. Funny, but it's actually really nice to look out the front window and see the beautiful porch beckoning us. I'm trying to view this time as an adventure in la vie boheme, like the young couple we never got to be together, starting fresh with little to our names and a lot of love and time to build a home. I would really, really like to not be sleeping on the floor sometime, though.